Tips For Parents: Playground Etiquette
The winter is finally over and warm weather is on the way! The arrival of spring means more outside time for you and your little ones. Whether you are taking a drive, walking, or out for a bike ride, chances are you are going to end up at the playground sooner or later. Hitting the playground, even if just for a little while, is a great way to keep the kids somewhat contained while they burn off some energy. It can be the perfect outing, as long as everyone behaves. By everyone, I’m talking about the parents just as much as the kids. Here are some etiquette rules to follow that will help make the playground experience more enjoyable for everyone.
- Your kids are your responsibility. While it’s nice to sit on the bench and have a few moments to yourself, never take your eyes off your kids. I know this seems obvious, but you would be surprised how many times I have seen a child climb too high or maybe fall off something and their parents are clueless. Safety is the No. 1 priority here, but it’s also important to make sure your child is behaving correctly and displaying proper etiquette as well.
- Be aware of other children. Sometimes there is another child misbehaving or doing things that are unsafe. It’s the age-old saying, “Monkey see, monkey do.” When one child does it, others are sure to follow. If you are aware of potential bad influences, you can discreetly steer your child in another direction.
- Never share food or drinks without asking. It never fails that I take out a snack for my kids and other longing eyes suddenly appear. While you might be inclined to immediately share, don’t. Ask the child’s parents if he or she is allowed to have something before you share. The last thing you want is to be responsible for a child having an allergic reaction to something that you gave them. Along with this is that if you are packing snacks and drinks, pack extra. Chances are you are going to need them!
- Leave the electronics at home or in the car. You can’t watch your child effectively if your face is buried in your phone. I know, I know, when your children are occupied you have a chance to catch up either socially or with work. Believe me, I was as guilty of this as much as anyone else, until my son was born. He’s a climber and he’s fast. In just one quick phone call, he was at the top of the rock-climbing wall, not able to get down. Things happen so fast – you need to always be paying attention.
- Don’t let your kids hog the equipment. If your child is on a swing and other children are clearly waiting their turn, limit the time. It’s only fair. And this goes for other children as well. If another child has been on something too long, it’s OK to say that your child would like a turn now.
- Stick to age-appropriate equipment. There is a reason that recommended ages are written on the side of each piece of playground equipment. Toddlers shouldn’t be on things designed for 10-year-olds, and vice versa. This is a huge safety issue. Children ages 6-12 have better arm strength and muscle coordination than children ages 2-5. And children under 2 shouldn’t be on a playground at all unless there is a designated toddler area.
When used correctly, playgrounds can be the perfect spot to spend the afternoon. Choose one with a restroom close by (you will thank me) and always throw away your trash. Have fun!